Take Charge, Give All Review


I’ll tell you a secret. First,  I have a talent in reading Bo Sachez’ book in one sitting. Second,  I have read all his books but I didn’t buy any of it. (That’s why I have read his books in one sitting. I just read it in bookstores LOL) I think I need to ask for Bo’s forgiveness. I love his books but I don’t want to buy it, I want others to buy it for me.

Speaking of his book, My pretty friend bought me his latest book. Champion's Manual: Take Charge, Give  All “7 Steps to Determine your Destiny and Create Incredible Success in Your Life” 

This books talked about 7 areas
  1.       Focus. He explained there that we should focus  on the good sides of life and disregard the bad sides.  
  2.       Identity. What we think of ourselves is different from what God sees us. Your identity from Christ is more important compared to what you labeled yourself.
  3.        Emotions. Bo said we should not deny our emotions, we should not avoid our emotions. Because our emotions, especially negative one have a unique ability to reveal our soul. And we should let God to do his works to heal our negative emotions.
  4.        Values. Our values are built on God’s Law. So every time you’re making a decision, do it with your value.
  5.     Time. Take Charge and Give all you 10,000 hours in everything. In relationship, in your family, in your career, in your ministry and in your studies. He said, quality time isn't enough. It should be quality and quantity time.
  6.     Talent. I love this topic. God gave us all talents. But we have to discover it, develop and deliver it. Talent may not work overnight. It’s also a lifelong process. So you’re growing with where you are right now, it means, it’s your talent. God gave you that, and you must do deliver your talent for God’s glory.
  7.        Treasure. Bo states that all success comes from pain. When he says take charge to your treasure means take charge to your pain. There’s no permanent pain.

I honestly like Bo’s book. His wisdom. His way of writing. And his humor through his books. I’ll be biased if I give 10 for this  Take Charge, Give All book. But yes. I highly recommend this book.

My favorite quotation on this book
Experience in not what happens to you. Experience is what you do to what happens to you.

Your opinion of yourself will determine the level of your success

All permanent success comes from pain. All success that doesn't come from pain will be short lived. 

Lies Young Women Believe



This generation of young women need to read this book. It lists down some of common lies that young women believe:

-Lies about Guys
-Lies about relationship
-Lies about the Future
-Lies about God

The book also includes ways how to overcome those lies, in biblical and practical way. This the quotation that I love in the whole context

What we really believe is revealed not by what we say, but how we live

You can also visit their site http://www.liesyoungwomenbelieve.com and be updated through their blog or share your story.

Louder than Words

Listen up, ladies. If you're out there wanting to land a man for keeps, set your boundaries.

     First, don't let any man treat you like you're his girlfriend unless he's made things explicitly clear. If you're wondering whether you're on or not, then probably, you're not!

     Next, don't let him hold your hand, put his arm around you or kiss you affectionately ( even on cheek ) unless he's committed to you.

     Third, don't let him have things for free. Your time and company are valuable. If he wants you to available everytime he wants, then he should understand that that role is played by a girlfriend, which he cant get unless hes willling to pay the price.

Now a word to the men. Please be mindful thet when you give preferential treatment to a girl that you're not particularly pursuing, it sends a different signal to woman, especially if she's attracted to you.  Understand that when you often call a girl or ask her out exclusively even when you have no romantic intentions, your action speak louder than words. If you dint have any intentions of courting a girl, then don't paly with her heart. Set your oundaries too, so that you dont unknowingly mislead a girl into thinking that youlike hwen you dont.

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This is part of the book I've read; Oh God Im still single by Rissa Singson-Kawpeng. I love how she expained the Do's and Don'ts of a single woman.