I did the love language meter and the results didn't surprise me

Words of Affirmation

Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I love you,” are important—hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten.

Words of Affirmation is my primary love language. Hearing affirmation from others really inspires me, that is why when they say something against me, I got affected.